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Leaving CrazyVille

Vincent van Gogh: corridor in the Asylum We have only a limited amount of time in our lives. With whom do we spend it and how? That’s probably one of the most decisive questions of our lives… ~ Henri...

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Coming Out of a CoDependent Haze

It was a pivotal revelation, given the angst I’d felt after bending like a pretzel so long. I needed to be free. Every pretzel has to crumble. So I broke, very quietly, and tried not to make a mess. I...

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We Don’t Need to Tell Everyone Our Story

Back in the ’90s I read a book that helped me restructure my approach to certain relationships. I read about safe and unsafe people. It resonated. Sounded good. And took me another 20 years to learn....

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What If Safe Friends are Unmasked Friends?

Photo Credit: Alaskan Dude via Compfight In the last post we discussed how we don’t need to tell everyone our story. We realize not all people are safe, nor will all people deserve to hear our story....

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